sonipittsMy name is Soni Pitts. I'm a professional copywriter and marketing geek, among other things.
This is my personal blog, a place for me to hang out and discuss whatever interests me, which at this moment seems to be stupid human tricks, weird science, mild geekery, zombies, food, myself and a few other bits and pieces of life.
Read at your own risk. Confronting new ideas without sufficient preparation can be dangerous! The author cannot be held responsible for paradigm shifts, cognitive dissonance, sneaking suspicions, throbbing temple veins, blood pressure spikes and/or fits (epileptic or apoplectic) caused by irresponsible ingestion of the materials presented herein.
About Me
Everything you ever wanted to know about me, and probably more. Also, the house rules and other random tidbits.
My Squidoo Lenses
Soni's Place - All Soni, all the time. Your basic vanity lens.
Write Livelihood - The home base of my freelance writing empire. Such as it is.
The Basics of Article Marketing - A lens on using web articles as a marketing platform.
Blogs
Write Livelihood - A blogfolio of my writing clips and samples.
NEW! Getting Things Done: A Year of Service - A blog I've set up to journal about my Americorps service.
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Tuesday, July 05, 2005
If moral behavior were simply following rules, we could program a computer to be moral. -- Samuel P. Ginder, US navy captain
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Monday, July 04, 2005
Ed Cone, of the News-Record, writes about the Declaration of Independence and includes this little gem of insight - The first two enumerated rights, life and liberty, are straightforward enough, but this business about the pursuit of Happiness is more complex. Note that it is a right to the pursuit of Happiness, not to Happiness itself, and that despite the messages of our consumer culture, Happiness is not always the same thing as Fun. And nothing makes some people unHappier than the prospect of other people being Happy in a way that does not suit them. Yet this right to a personal definition of Happiness, and the right to pursue it, remains at the core of what Americans want their country to be. It is the Declaration's most profound idea. This brings to mind H. L. Menken's famous quote, "Fundamentalism: the terrible, pervasive fear that someone, somewhere, is having fun." In a country that is increasingly becoming polarized by religious partisans who seem to be heading us down a road that ends dangerously close to a Judeo-Christian version of sharia, we might do well to remember that our founding fathers wisely believed that the freedom of each to pursue happiness on their own terms was the foundation of freedom, not the slippery road to anarchy.
Posted at 08:33 pm by sonipitts
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Thursday, June 30, 2005
From Coaching Toys - Sparkers, Creative Ideas and Exercises, comes this little gem of an excerpt: Sabbath time can be a revolutionary challenge to the violence of overwork, mindless accumulation, and the endless multiplication of desires, responsibilities and accomplishments. Sabbath is a way of being in time where we remember who we are, remember what we know, and taste the gifts of spirit and eternity. -- Wayne Muller: Sabbath: Finding Rest, Renewal and Delight in Our Busy Lives
So, how about it - ready to shuck off the overdemanding, overhyped and overrated Puritan work ethic that has only served to put bellows to the fire of modern progress run amok? I know I am, which is why if you see anything posted here on a Saturday, you know something's seriously awry, like my sense of self-importance in thinking the world can't make do without me for 24 hours. Hell, I don't even turn on the computer or answer the phone unless it's an emergency. (I think I heard someone choking - I hope they're okay. I know the prospect of day sans connectivity is enough to strike terror into the hearts of the weak, the young and the heavily stock-invested.) No, for me Saturday is Sabboth day (no religious significance to the day chosen - it was merely the most convenient) - no work, no worrying about work, no email or surfing, no responsibilities beyond basic life support (I do brush my teeth, but that's about the extent of it), and no pressure to be doing any particular thing. For 24 hours. Straight. Damn near killed me the first few months. But I'm an old hand, now, so much so that it's beginning to bleed over into my Sundays, although I usually do manage to rouse myself enough to work on a few home-type projects just for the sake of slowing the process of merging from restful and regenerative repose to succumbing to sloth. Here lately, my weekends are being spent staying with Mom out in the wilds of Southeastern Missouri, and she doesn't even have a phone, let alone a tv or a computer. Nothing but me, the cats, the birds and Mom (she's usually wandering from one room to another trying to remember why she went in there). It's like the Gobi desert of social connectivity. And it works wonders, let me tell you. It's amazing how humbling it is to spend an entire weekend away from work and people and all that jazz, only to find that no one missed you but the friendly gang down at Nigerian Lotto Scams, Inc. And maybe that's why most of us don't. Maybe we keep working just so we can maintain the illusion of indispensability. I'm busy, therefore I must be needed, because if I wasn't needed, I wouldn't be so busy. To realize that you can disappear off the face of the planet all weekend without creating so much as a ripple in the fabric of social space-time is a hard pill to swallow. To risk discovering that things might actually work better when you're not there is even worse. So what are you afraid of? What are you running from when you hurry from one appointment to the next, and what are you avoiding by double booking your kid's playdate with a bi-coastal teleconference? There's one sure fire way to find out - spend 24-48 hours without so much as ooking at your phone, your computer or your television and you won't have to go soul-searching to see what fragile illusion you're depending on for your social identity. It'll get right up into your face and serve you notice. Are you ready to rumble?
Posted at 09:46 pm by sonipitts
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Just a hand-puppet for God
Working with a client today on issues regarding recharging, taking time out for yourself and so on, and this little gem popped out of my mouth fully formed: Teaching others isn't just sharing knowledge - the knowledge you share is merely a tool that allows your students to recreate for themselves the inspiration that you provide by being who you are.
I've got a good idea where this stuff comes from, and it ain't my humble little cranium space. Sometimes I stand in sheer awe of the stuff that comes out of my mouth when I'm in that flow state (although hearing it promptly de-flows me as I scramble for a pen to get it down while I can remember it). All I can do is hope that Insh'allah, it'll keep coming. (Heh - that little prayer ought to register a ping ECHELON - I do like keep our intel folks on their toes.) Thank you, I'll be here all week. Tip your waitresses and have a great night!
Posted at 06:40 pm by sonipitts
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Class consciousness and the dangerous myth of the self-made man
Writing for In These Times, David Moberg explores the dichotomy between the American belief that class isn't determinative, that social mobility is alive and well and that the rich get rich by virtue of their own hard work, determination and inate talent and not as a result of birth, status or luck. The myth, or belief, that people are solely what they make of themselves is useful to keep in mind while reading two ongoing series: the New York Times' on class and the Wall Street Journal's on social mobility. Both focus attention on a truth about American society that runs counter to most people's deep-seated beliefs: There is less social mobility in the United States now than in the '80s (and less then than in the '70s) and less mobility than in many other industrial countries, including Canada, Finland, Sweden and Germany. Yet 40 percent of respondents to a Times poll said that there was a greater chance to move up from one class to another now than 30 years ago, and 46 percent said it was easier to do so in the United States than in Europe.
...It becomes clear, as the Times series is titled, that "class matters," just as race, gender and other accidents of history matter. The social class into which someone is born largely defines one's class as an adult, and both make a difference in how healthy or how long-lived the person will be, especially in the absence of universal health insurance. It influences access to education and to jobs.
The myth of the self-made person, however, encourages the person who succeeds to think his good fortune is due entirely to his work and genius. For this reason businessmen in the United States have historically been more anti-union and hostile to government than their counterparts in Europe. And the myth makes those who fail blame themselves.
Although I am a staunch believer in many aspect of the self-made condition, I do so under no illusions about how that reality is affected by class awareness, social mobility and the restrictions and problems created by the nature of one's birth class. That's why I do the work I do - not only do I provide people with the normals tools and resources to try and climb out of their current situation into something new, I do a lot of work in showing others that such a thing is even possible and helping them find ways to do it. Of course, as with all things, my own class and the options that gives me (and hides from me) play there own part in my ability to help others and it has been a bona fide slog to try and fight my way clear of a lot of the unsaid, understood and subconscious tethers that are doing their level best to keep me where I started. This is a good thing, though. I can only teach what I know from my own experience, so every roadblock, glass ceiling and blind spot I come up against and confront simply provides me with that much more perspective to work with. This much is true - the American Dream, such as it was, is dead and has been for decades. The problem is that, just like a cheesy Hollywood slapstick plot, Americans have become so enamored and/or dependent on its existence that they've taken to dragging the stinking corpse of it around with them, dressed up with bright clothes and sprayed down with bathroom deodorizer to mask the stench of its mouldering miasma. Folks, let it go - you can't deal with what is unless and until you're willing to acknowledge what is no more. Luck, birth, class, societal behavior and other factors do play a role in how successful you are likely to be, regardless of your own intrinsic worth, skill and effort. This is fact. What is also fact is that a society who cherishes the success of its citizens needs to understand that working together, rather than competing with one another, is the only way to ensure a steady crop of such prosperous members. No man is an island. True self-made status is a myth, a subset of the Bread and Circuses part of our free gift with purchase for buying into the pyramid scheme of the American Dream - realistically, our efforts in the current societal set-up more often serve to make the rich richer without advancing our own cause. As Moberg writes in his article... Great social disparity means that the financially well-off use their money and greater political leverage to protect their privilege rather than to design policies for the common good.
...the very rich accumulate their wealth not simply because of what they did but because of the society in which they lived, and they have a debt to that society. And the heirs of such wealth are the antithesis of self-made men.
This self-interested behavior means that those struggling to come up from below have fewer and fewer infrastructural benefits, support and options to work with. Like European-decendent Americans trying to cap immigration levels so that other "self starters" can't have access to the same opportunities that created their own family's wealth, those at the top of the heap are doing their level best to prevent others from joining them, all the while trumpeting the facade of their own self-made status ( And it can be yours, too, for just a few low, low payments!) to motivate their employees to maintain and increase the value of the holdings that keep them in power. Unless we radically change the way our society views and handles success, prosperity and wealth, it is my firm belief that the American Dream will quickly morphing into a nightmare from which we will not be able to awaken. Sweet dreams.
Posted at 04:51 pm by sonipitts
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Wednesday, June 29, 2005
Here is the follow up piece to Monday's post on balancing work and leisure. In it, success guru Michael Masterson talks about trading in his "I've scheduled 15 minutes for fun Thurday after next between 4 and 5" kind of life tfor a "If it ain't fun, I ain't doing it" alternative. So, how does he plan to do that and still maintain that cutting edge, multi-millionaire success guru level of existence? Check out his "life is for fun" plan for yourself. (Scroll down to the "Today's Message" segment.)
Posted at 05:19 pm by sonipitts
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A new addition to the freaky world of science meets enlightenment - Dr. Bruce Lipton's new book, Biology of Belief: The Biology of Belief is a groundbreaking work in the field of New Biology. Author Dr. Bruce Lipton is a former medical school professor and research scientist. His experiments, and those of other leading-edge scientists, have examined in great detail the processes by which cells receive information. The implications of this research radically change our understanding of life. It shows that genes and DNA do not control our biology; that instead DNA is controlled by signals from outside the cell, including the energetic messages emanating from our positive and negative thoughts. Dr. Lipton92s profoundly hopeful synthesis of the latest and best research in cell biology and quantum physics is being hailed as a major breakthrough showing that our bodies can be changed as we retrain our thinking. Basically, the gist of the tome is this - the instructions your cells get to do what they do (whether that is rev up, multiply, die, go haywire, or whatever) comes not from some mysterious "within" but from outside, specifically your thoughts and beliefs. In other words, those goofball metaphysicists on Art Bell have one thing right. You literally are (or will become) what you think, feel and believe. Of course the tin-foil-hat guys are still high up on the crazy list, but you can't win them all.
Posted at 05:03 pm by sonipitts
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Berry-picking can kill you - along the Columbia River, anyway
Hanford Area Tests Find Plutonium in Fish, Mulberry TreesRadioactive contamination in public areas surrounding the Hanford Nuclear Site in Richland, Washington is higher and more geographically widespread than previously thought, according to a report today from a government watchdog group and a chemical data firm. The Government Accountability Project (GAP) and Boston Chemical Data Corporation issued a study that includes the first reports of plutonium in clams and fish in the Columbia River.
The report includes evidence that radiation levels in mulberry trees are higher than previously reported, and that strontium-90 has entered the ecosystem in high levels.
"This is hard evidence that points to past Department of Energy reports as being inadequate to protect the people of southwest Washington and northern Oregon," said Tom Carpenter, GAP Nuclear Oversight Campaign Director. Yum yum - toxic berries. Okay, scratching the "enjoy the scenic wilderness of Washington" off my list of things to do - ever.
Posted at 12:52 pm by sonipitts
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Monday, June 27, 2005
Check out Steve Jobs' exceedingly forthright and inspiring commencement speech to Stanford. ...for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself, "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "no" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something. Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important thing I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life, because almost everything--all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure--these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart. Apparently the guy is making up for some serious karmic backlogs, but aside from that his message to the grads (cliff notes version: shit happens and guess what - that's where the best stuff's going to happen to you in your life) is dead-on, low on the BS quotient and high on "get over yourself and learn to embrace the chaos" clarity. All that and Nemo, too. Now that's my kind of guy.
Posted at 11:18 pm by sonipitts
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Commentary on the 10 Commandments decision
Mark Daniels provides an alternative and refreshingly vitriol-free Christian view on the Supreme Court's ruling on the public display of the 10 Commandments. As a purely spiritual matter, I believe that the display of the Ten Commandments on public property may be:
(1) Contrary to God's will;
(2) Destructive of a positive witness for Christ.
The cause to which every Christian is called to be committed--sharing the Good News of Jesus Christ's death and resurrection and their power to give new life to all who follow Him--is not something that we are to "farm out" to the government. Each follower of Christ is to embrace this as part of their personal mission.
For we Christians to insist that tax dollars be used in what often is an act of proselytization not only violates constitutional principles, but Biblical ones as well. It smacks of coercion, of using one's status in a community to force our views on others. Scour the Bible from cover to cover and you won't find God ever sanctioning the coercive imposition of our faith on others. In fact, we're called upon to share our faith with compassion, with humility, and with respect for those with whom we differ.
I'm with Mr. Daniels on this issue - the less I see of any religion marking out territory in the halls of civil justice, the better I feel about the security of the knot in Justice's blindfold. And let's be honest - if you feel that you have to shove your religion into everyone's face at every opportunity, then it's hardly a resounding testament to said religion's intrinsic appeal, now is it? Additionally, as Daniels points out, the current cultural concept of America as a Christian nation is in fact a highly a changable reality. Given immigration, minority birthrates, fashionable philosophical drift, public availiablity of other religious teachings, paediphiliac priests and so on, there's no reason to think that in 50 years it'll still be that way - and I don't think those currently pissed at losing this power to freely proselytize would be particularly happy to see Muslims, Buddhists or Jews (or even worse, Scientologists) hauling the old Commandment plaques out to make room for their own versions, should they gain the majority. Maybe this is the birth of a new golden rule: Never ask for legislated favor that you wouldn't want to see in the hands of others.
Posted at 08:45 pm by sonipitts
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